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Archive for November 24th, 2009

Scott had to turn his head away while the needle penetrated;
with a sobering voice, he kept saying, “I am sorry; I am so
sorry.” As soon as he returned home from the vet, this
six-foot-two-tall man collapsed into tears after putting Jackie,
his kitty cat to sleep.

Jackie had not cleaned himself or eaten for two days. Scott
noticed that he had a hair ball in his mouth, as he looked
closer, he found out it was blood. After that he rushed Jackie
to the vet and discovered Jackie had cancer under his tongue.
There was not much Scott could do except put him to sleep.

Linda just got back home, after saying a quick hi to Scott, she
started to look for Jackie, “Come on baby, Mommy is home, where
are you Jackie?” Well…she cried four days after she was told
that Jackie was put to sleep.

It was a true story; the reason I brought this up is because
often times, we take relationships for granted and fail to
cherish what we have until it is too late.

Love and figures

Love is a universal language. It is perhaps one of the most
popular words we use on a daily basis, each day there are over
20,000[1] people searching for love. According to the U.S.
Census Bureau, if you are in your 20’s and you are single male,
then you are more likely to look for love.

While more and more people say I do at a later age[2], pet
ownership is increasing. A recent survey conducted by the
American Pet Products Manufacturers Association (APPMA), in
1988, the first year survey was conducted, 56% of U.S.
households own a pet compared to the 63% present day.”

Lasting Bonds

The simple truth is that Americans live far more than
subsistent; we often lost the touch of our inner self. In this
nothing is built to last era, the human-pet bond relationship
becomes stronger in Americans’ lives than many realize. More
empty nesters, young couples or single professionals are
substituting children with a pet.

A recent survey conducted by the American Veterinary Medical
Association, “The strong growth in the industry demonstrates
what an important role pets are playing in the lives of
Americans…they have become a part of the family.”

Another survey conducted by the APPMA, revealed 57% would prefer
their pet as their only companion if they were stranded on a
desert island. It is not uncommon for a pet owner to call back
home and leave messages on the answering machine while they are
away, or saying “I love you” to their pets several times a day.

Some pet owners are willing to reach deep down into their pocket
to have a birthday party for their pets; others will send their
pet for a massage session. To some, these behaviors may seem
“queer” and some even wonder why people would do so much for
their pets.

The reality

Pets offer far more than return, they greet us at our ups and
downs, waiting faithfully behind that closed door day in and day
out. Unfortunately, their love for us can’t even earn them a
permanent space in our heart. According to The Human Society of
the United States (HSUS), 6-8 million of our furry friends end
up in shelters, and about 50% of them are euthanized. As one of
the richest and so-called-animal loving nation, we really need
to look at statistics seriously.

Learn to love

Each day some are loosing their loves, while many are looking
for new love all in the wrong places. Single ads are flowing
just about everywhere and anywhere, how many of us have realized
and cherish our best friend(s) – the inspiring, fascinating, and
more importantly, adorable friend who providing nothing but
unconditional love.

Love is a lesson and a long time commitment. Learn to love your
best friend(s) with all your heart and with devotion because to
them, the bond between you and him/her can be best describes as
“for richer, for poorer, in sickness, and in health, to love and
until death do us apart.”

Footnotes:

[1] Figure obtained from the Web CEO.

[2] According to the U.S. Census Bureau, “the proportion of
women 20 to 24 years old who had never married more than doubled
between 1970 and 2003 — from 36 percent to 75 percent. Changes
were also dramatic for men — the corresponding rate for men in
this age group increased from 55 percent to 86 percent.”